Dear Jim:
I remember well in those final years how you didn’t hear or understand most of what I had to say but it never bothered me. I was able to repeat my stories over and over and you were always entertained.
Recently, I had a wake-up call, orchestrated by Sally that suggested I might require an assist with my hearing.
Over dinner she had said “Louise went out for dinner” and I replied, “She went to Greece?
Now I thought it was an honest mistake since, as usual. I wasn’t paying much attention, but the subsequent conversation sent me off to get hearing aids.
I did a complete survey of all the old geezers I know who have struggled with their hearing and received absolutely no information that was at all useful. Seems there are dozens of models, manufacturers, and theories about what is the best solution.
Some people who haven’t understood a word I have said to them for years swore up and down that their approach was the best.
Ok, off I went and after an intensive process I walked out with $8000 devices that were going to change my life. The only change I’ve noticed so far is that I have less money in my account than I did before.
I was told I could return them for full refund in 30 days. (I am checking off my calendar every morning, so I don’t miss the deadline.)
First, you must promise that for the first 2 weeks you will wear them for at least 5 hours per day. That probably doesn’t seem like a long time. Right?
Have you ever watched a clock for 5 hours. It is forever!
When the 4hr and 59-minute mark arrives, I can’t rip those suckers out of my ears fast enough.
I thought noisy restaurants or gatherings were the perfect venue for me as I do have trouble sometimes.
Nope, if I had read the instructions, I would have noted that “do not use in noisy environments” means everywhere that I would like to have clear input.
The first night I went out for dinner I felt like I was in an orchestra pit with the waiters’ playing cymbals and the other patrons randomly screaming and yelling while they banged their plates with knives and forks.
My head was vibrating for hours. I’m not sure there isn’t permanent damage.
They claim there is a setting that blocks out background noise. They don’t tell you it blocks out all noise and you are essentially deaf.
I know, I know you are thinking why not just take them out. Well, you must keep them in a special case which I have difficulty remembering to bring with me, so I have nowhere to keep them.
Here is the summary.
No good in noisy settings restaurants, meetings, parties.
Don’t need them one on one.
Don’t need them on the phone, just turn up the volume a tad.
Turn the TV up a bit and there is no problem.
Driving doesn’t require anything.
Sally sounds twice as loud over dinner. Not necessarily a plus.
True enough I do hear noises that were not apparent to me before. For example, any flowing water from any source makes me think I’m in a Maid of the Mist tour of Niagara Falls. Every creak of my car's suspension makes me think I’m driving a 1963 Russian Lada. I can hear the squeaking of my cords as I walk.
In other words, all the things I couldn’t hear before and have no interest in hearing now!!
I have only finished week one and I will keep going until 30 days are up for sure just in case there is a magic moment coming up.
The purpose of this note is a warning that if you see me this summer and I don’t respond to you when you say something, please don’t take it personally. I will be doing my best!
Bill Meder
Billmeder.blogspot.com